Israel is a wonderful country for marriage and life.
Israel is attractive to our compatriots with a high standard of living on one side and a large number of “ours” on its territory on the other. It is very popular for both tourism and for permanent residence. It is not uncommon for girls to get there as a local wife. It is believed that to marry an Israeli and move there to live is quite difficult. In principle, so it is. However, this is not impossible. Let’s try to find out what the specifics of marriage with an Israeli are.
The specificity of life in Israel.
The first, perhaps, is the question that you will need to ask your potential groom – to which confession he belongs. Israel is a multinational country, and the differences between cultures and their customs are sometimes very serious. So that they do not become a surprise for you, discuss them in advance – get rid of the extra headache in the future.
Some Israeli communities, for example, take a very serious approach to defining the role of women in society. And they perceive it solely as a tool for cooking. Such men, as a rule, do not seek wives abroad, but anything can happen. However, it should be noted that such gradually becomes less. Still, European traditions penetrate even the most religious and harsh communities. Although even they do not allow themselves to be violent towards women – in Israel it is legally banned in all its manifestations.
Every Saturday and the second half of Friday in all Israel – the weekend. At this time, even shops and public transport will not work. Wedding at this time, too, can not be played.
Hebrew is desirable to know, because in English you will not understand everything. Russian, in principle, is also in motion, but you need to know the local language.
Procurement of products is more profitable in the markets, rather than in supermarkets. But if you live far away, especially on the market you should not go – there will be no big savings, you will spend more on transportation. By the way, just as soon as you arrive – get a travel card, the benefits are obvious.
What are they – real Israelis?
It is worth acknowledging that the established stereotype of the greed of the Jewish people has certain grounds. However, do not think that if you marry a Jew, you will live half the hunger. Just do not count on frequent trips to elite restaurants or a lot of expensive gifts – your husband will probably find this money more worthy of use. For example, the Israeli will always find money to repair the house-money useful for the family. They also devote very little time and attention to clothing – they also do not accept spending money on it.
Most Israelis earn decent money. The country is well paid for technical specialties, so this education is the most popular. There is also a business vein – business Israelis also know how to filigree. Accordingly, due to this chances to get acquainted with the provided man increase.
In communication, the Israelis are trying to be as simple as possible. So do not be surprised and do not be offended, even if in the most sensual moments of communication, your interlocutor will not speak at all romantically. This does not mean that you have fallen out of love. He’s just so used to it.
If you are going to live together, very carefully ask the possible spouse about food. Kosher food – a specific thing, and to prepare it properly, you need to understand the intricacies. For example, for one meal you can not eat together certain types of food and meat. An important role wins holidays – for them in general, almost a special diet is laid.
The strongest Israeli families.
Legends about the strongest family ties in Israeli society are not in vain. For any real Israelite, marriage is sacred. They are excellent fathers and faithful husbands, and children in the Israeli family are allowed literally everything. The same applies, in principle, to the approach of the state. Classes at school, for example, are not very intensive, so that children have time to develop and beyond. Kindergarten to three years – free.
A good tradition is the regular trips by the whole family to somewhere in the nature. Also, a man tries to bring his family abroad several times a year.
The subtleties of marriage with an Israeli.
Israeli legislation is quite strict in relation to the official registration of marriage. There is no legal civil marriage institution in Israel. Accordingly, and stay in the country with the help of this option is impossible. The only way to formalize a marriage in Israel is to do this according to all religious canons. And this is possible only under the condition of the marriage of a Jew and a Jew, that is, born of a Jewish mother.
If this is not your option, do not get discouraged. Your case is far from the first, believe me. And an alternative was found long ago. In such cases, the couple marries Cyprus (as an option – the Czech Republic, but the Israelis prefer the island state), after which it is quite legally formalized already in the homeland of her husband.
The peculiarity is that after the application for the intention to bring the spouse to Israel, the Israeli must return and wait for the decision at home. Well, since the procedure can take a certain amount of time, be prepared to expect separately from each other. Usually the verification procedure takes about a month. You can spend this time preparing and processing the following documents (translated, if necessary, and certified):
Marriage certificate; birth certificate; certificate of good conduct; certificate of marital status prior to marriage; internal passport with seal of marriage; international passport.
The list can vary, learn on the spot. To withdraw children from a previous marriage, you need permission from your father.
How and where to get acquainted with an Israeli.
Despite the high level of education in their country, many Israelis are going to receive a diploma abroad. And although the study is likely to be their first place, you can easily get a new acquaintance. Another thing is that marriage can not be a priority for the student.
A good option is to pick up the groom on the Internet on a special website. There they are registered, the purpose of which is a serious acquaintance with the further marriage. Here you can count on the fact that conversations will not go around the bush – on such resources, marriage for an Israeli is more likely. But it is not guaranteed – verification of data that users leave is minimized or completely absent. So you can not be sure that the photos of your interlocutor are still relevant (and were not made several years ago), and the salary really corresponds to what was said. In such cases, a personal meeting is simply necessary. And even if you are completely confident in the potential groom and are already discussing the wedding, a few dates should be spent at least because the Israeli Interior Ministry can suspect your couple in a fictitious marriage. Too short a period of time between acquaintance and a wedding is an occasion to refuse registration.
But the most reliable option to find a groom and to marry in Israel were and remain international marriage agencies. A large database, a guarantee of results, verification of data and accompanying services – in a solid agency you will be offered a full complex.
An example from the experience of the marriage agency Paradise Date.
Tatiana says that, disappointed after the second unsuccessful marriage to find a decent man, decided to pause in search. Laughing for nothing, hoping for nothing, she registered on several dating sites and started several virtual acquaintances. To her surprise, very soon several foreigners were ready, as they said, to come and arrange a meeting at their house. Tatiana, of course, refused all suggestions, not being sure of the sincerity of feelings.
But the possibility of a correspondence acquaintance with foreigners interested the girl. She applied to the marriage agency Paradise Date – the largest in Kharkov. Spectacular appearance and beautiful, but modest photos (Tatiana least wanted to seem vulgar) did their work and the result was even more stunning. Employees of the agency were able to organize several visits to her at once, one of which became fatal. Asher came to Ukraine for his wife, and left with her. More precisely, he left alone – we have already discussed the formal subtleties that the state of Israel requires, it is not easy to conclude a marriage here – but Tanya soon should reunite with her chosen one.
This couple became another happy family, which was formed thanks to the agency Paradise Date. Here, all clients are guaranteed confidentiality of data, their reliability and high performance. Girls use the services of the agency for free – the work is paid for by men. So they once again confirm that they are serious. Throughout its existence (since 2008) Paradise Date works exclusively with such men: respectable, established and ready to build a family.
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Israel is a wonderful country for marriage and life.